Reasons Why 2 Never Trust a Man & Never Quit Your Job, Expecially If You Are a Single Mom!

I have often watched & learned a lot of mistakes from watching my mom as I grew up.
I learned really quick "Never 2 Depend on a Man!"
The very 1st time I got comfortable t depend on my, soon 2 be ex-husband, I found out real quick why I Shouldn't Have Trusted Him!
I quit my job because he was working offshore & he said that since I have been a single mom my kids whole lives, that I deserved to be able to be a stay @ home mom, because he made enough $ to take care of us. What a HUGE MISTAKE THAT WAS!
It seemed pretty good to me@ 1st because I had been working 12 hour days, 7 days a week for 2 whole years, to provide for my kids. I had to work so much because I only made $5 an hour.
I was so looking forward to being able to spend some much needed time with my kids. I missed them so much because I would go to work, often walking to work most of the time, by the time they got home from school I was at work, & by the time I got off @ 10:00 @ night, they would be going to bed because they had school the next day.  I could get use to being home when they got off of the bus. Being a single mom having to work so much doesn't leave much time for me to spend with my babies.
So, I ended up quitting my job because my, @ the time fiancee asked me to. 
That worked out for about a year. 
After I married, my soon 2 be ex-husband, he quit his job, the day after I married him.
This had been the only man that I trusted enough to take care of me & my kids! 
As it turns out I should have listened to my entervoice, my conscience, when it told me that this is 2 good 2 be true because as soon as I quit my job shit is gonna go side ways!
Well, shit did go side ways because little did I know that my, soon 2 be ex-husband, had started dabbling with meth.
Now, here I am, a little over a year down the road, & I am struggling to get a job!
I have been desperately, actively, looking for a job now for over a year & still have not found one.
However, by constantly filling out applications on indeed.com & careerbuilder.com, I have gotten 4 interviews. Most of my job interviews coming from indeed.com where I had posted my resume for employers 2 see. A lot of jobs I haven't taken because it was for commission work. I am in need of a job that's going 2 pay me once a week or every two weeks, because until I can save enough $ 4 a vehicle, my mom is gonna have 2 bring me back & fourth 2 work.
I should have listened to my gut feeling because after being out of work for 6 years it's almost impossible to get a job because companies question why I have such a big gap in my work history.

So, this is my advice to "ALL SINGLE MOTHER'S"  NEVER QUIT YOUR JOB BECAUSE A MAN ASKS YOU 2! 
They could be a lier or have another agenda. However, not all men lie & quit their jobs after you marry them.

NEVER LET A MAN TALK YOU IN2 QUITTING YOUR JOB BECAUSE IF SHIT GOES SIDE WAYS, WHAT MEANS OF INCOME WILL YOU HAVE 2 BE ABLE 2 GET OUT OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP, IF YOU WERE TO NEED TO FOR YOUR SAKE OR THE SAKE IF YOUR KIDS!

NEVER LET A MAN TALK YOU IN2 QUITTING YOUR JOB BECAUSE JOBS ARE HARD 2 FIND & IN MY CASE HAS TAKING OVER A YEAR & COUNTING 2 FIND ANOTHER ONE!

NEVER QUIT YOUR JOB AS A SINGLE MOTHER BECAUSE WHEN SHIT DON'T WORK OUT YOUR STUCK STRUGGLING BY YOURSELF WITH YOUR KIDS!

NEVER QUIT YOUR JOB BECAUSE WHEN YOU DO GET DESPITE FOR A JOB, as in my case, IT WILL BE EXTREMELY HARD 2 FIND ONE BECAUSE OF THE GAP IN YOUR WORK HISTORY!

MOST IMPORTANTLY: AS A SINGLE MOM NEVER TRUST WHAT A MAN TELLS YOU BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN SHIT IS GONNA GO SIDEWAYS! IN 2DAYS SOCIETY THE AVERAGE PERSON GETS MARRIED ON AVERAGE 3 TIMES!

ALWAYS HAVE A CASH STASH THAT YOUR SPOUSE DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT & HAVE A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER TO HAVE A COPY OF ALL OD YOUR IMPORTANT PAPERWORK, such as birth certificates, social security cards, Medicaid cards, an over night bags for you &e your kids, ect, JUST INCASE YOU MAY NEED TO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE OR TOXIC SITUATION IMMEDIATELY!!!!

If in the event that you may NEED 2 talk 2 someone for support, may NEED 2 ASK ?'S, or maybe NEED some advice on how to get OUT OF AN ABUSIVE OR TOXIC SITUATION, or if you may find that your just NOT HAPPY in your current situation:
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