Ways that you can help an abuse
victim:
* Let the victim know that you will be available day or night, when or if they need you, even if it may be just to talk.
* Remind the victim often that they are NOT ALONE!
* If & when the victim informs you that they are ready to "Get Out Of The Abusive Situation, ask " How can I (you) help? " Or " What Can You Do 2 Help? "
* You can do " Research on Abuse ", 4 the victim such as:
• Call & Get " Information on what services the abuse help center offers 4 abused woman"
* Get " Advise" from a local Abuse Help Center in your area or Call an Abuse Hotline
• National Violence Hotline #:
1-800-799-7233
• Crisis Hotline # :
Call: 1-800-273-8255
Text "Care" to 839863
• Domestic Abuse Hotline # :
∆ Abuse Websites:
*
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Friday, September 20, 2019
Sexual Abuse
Sexual Abuse is *when a victim is forced to have sex or forced to preform sexual acts that they have verbal said "No" or "I do NOT WANT TO!"
In most cases of sexual abuse never gets reported. Many victim's of sexual abuse do NOT open up & talk about it, & if or when the victim does talk about the abuse, report the abuse, or tell someone about the abuse it is usually many years later mainly because:
* They (are/were) scared. In many cases the abuser threatens to do bodily harm or threatens to kill the victim &/or the victim's families.
* Many victim's don't like to report or talk about the abuse because they feel guilty. Many victims feel like the abuse was their fault & they somehow caused the abuse to happen.
* Many victim's are ashamed or embarrassed.
* Many victim's don't feel like anybody will believe them.
There are 2 types of sexual abuse:
* Molestation is when a child is sexually touched by an adult.
* Rape is when someone is forcing sexual acts, such as have sex, intercourse, oral sex, or is made to sexually touched or been touched by anyone who has said "NO" to or has rejected any &/or all sexual advances! Rape also includes sexually touching or any sexual advances without a person giving you permission to do so. Another form of Rape is sexually touching, or making sexual acts on someone who is "sleeping" or "uncounsious".
WARNING SIGNS OF SEXUAL ABUSE:
* The victim may cry or be emotional more than usual.
* The victim may become depressed.
* The victim may isolate themselves.
* The victim's demeanor or attitude may change in general or around a specific person who may have abused them.
WARNING SIGNS OF SEXUAL ABUSE IN CHILDREN:
* The child's behavior may change dramatically.
* Most children will act out @ home & @ school.
* Most children will have a dramatic change in attitude.
* Most children will start to misbehave or get in trouble @ school &/or @ home.
* The child may start to wet/pee in the bed.
* The child may act out sexual by sexually touching other children or adults.
* Children may start to have nightmares.
* Many children may sexual touch toys such as bears, baby dolls, or Barbie dolls. Children may start to destroy their toys.
In most cases of sexual abuse never gets reported. Many victim's of sexual abuse do NOT open up & talk about it, & if or when the victim does talk about the abuse, report the abuse, or tell someone about the abuse it is usually many years later mainly because:
* They (are/were) scared. In many cases the abuser threatens to do bodily harm or threatens to kill the victim &/or the victim's families.
* Many victim's don't like to report or talk about the abuse because they feel guilty. Many victims feel like the abuse was their fault & they somehow caused the abuse to happen.
* Many victim's are ashamed or embarrassed.
* Many victim's don't feel like anybody will believe them.
There are 2 types of sexual abuse:
* Molestation is when a child is sexually touched by an adult.
* Rape is when someone is forcing sexual acts, such as have sex, intercourse, oral sex, or is made to sexually touched or been touched by anyone who has said "NO" to or has rejected any &/or all sexual advances! Rape also includes sexually touching or any sexual advances without a person giving you permission to do so. Another form of Rape is sexually touching, or making sexual acts on someone who is "sleeping" or "uncounsious".
WARNING SIGNS OF SEXUAL ABUSE:
* The victim may cry or be emotional more than usual.
* The victim may become depressed.
* The victim may isolate themselves.
* The victim's demeanor or attitude may change in general or around a specific person who may have abused them.
WARNING SIGNS OF SEXUAL ABUSE IN CHILDREN:
* The child's behavior may change dramatically.
* Most children will act out @ home & @ school.
* Most children will have a dramatic change in attitude.
* Most children will start to misbehave or get in trouble @ school &/or @ home.
* The child may start to wet/pee in the bed.
* The child may act out sexual by sexually touching other children or adults.
* Children may start to have nightmares.
* Many children may sexual touch toys such as bears, baby dolls, or Barbie dolls. Children may start to destroy their toys.
Emotional Abuse
Mental Abuse is when the "Abuser" will make the "Victim" feel sad, mad, depressed, or make them (victim) feel guilty when they (the victim) has done nothing wrong. The "abuser" will "play with the victim's emotions", or the "abuser" will " push the victim's buttons", so 2 speak.
EXAMPLES OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE:
* The "abuser" will critize the
"victim & the victim's actions" by
telling the victim that they can't
do anything right.
* The "abuser" will attack the "victim's character" by calling the
victim names like, *itch,
*hore, stupid, *lut, ect, as if it was the "victim's name".
WARNING SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE:
* Often when you call the " victim"
they will say that " They Can't
Talk"
* The "victim" will speak in a low
tone of voice, such as a "whisper".
* When you ask a victim "What's
Wrong?" the " victim" will often
reply with
• " I'm Fine".
• " Nothing Is Wrong."
• " It's not important."
EXAMPLES OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE:
* The "abuser" will critize the
"victim & the victim's actions" by
telling the victim that they can't
do anything right.
* The "abuser" will attack the "victim's character" by calling the
victim names like, *itch,
*hore, stupid, *lut, ect, as if it was the "victim's name".
WARNING SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE:
* Often when you call the " victim"
they will say that " They Can't
Talk"
* The "victim" will speak in a low
tone of voice, such as a "whisper".
* When you ask a victim "What's
Wrong?" the " victim" will often
reply with
• " I'm Fine".
• " Nothing Is Wrong."
• " It's not important."
Mental Abuse
Mental Abuse in many cases the "Abusers" make the "Victims" feel worthless , the "abuser" will make comments putting down on the "Victim". The "abusers" makes the "Victims" feel like they are nothing.
Examples of Mental Abuse:
* The "Abuser" makes the "Victim" feel like they, (the victim), are beneath them, (the Abuser).
∆ "Abuser" tells the "Victim" :
they(victim), are nothing without them(abuser).
* The "abuser" will critize the "victim" & everything that the "victim" does.
∆ "abuser" tells the "victim" that they(victim) can't do anything right.
* The "abuser" will curse the "victim" & call them(victim) names
WARNING SIGNS OF MENTAL ABUSE:
* The victim will have low self
esteem.
* The victim will make negative
comments about themselves.
* When asked 2 go somewhere
the victim will make excuses
why they "Can't Go"
In most cases the "victim" will make excuses why they can't go because they are in fear that they will be accused of cheating or in fear that the "abuser" will get upset/mad.
Examples of Mental Abuse:
* The "Abuser" makes the "Victim" feel like they, (the victim), are beneath them, (the Abuser).
∆ "Abuser" tells the "Victim" :
they(victim), are nothing without them(abuser).
* The "abuser" will critize the "victim" & everything that the "victim" does.
∆ "abuser" tells the "victim" that they(victim) can't do anything right.
* The "abuser" will curse the "victim" & call them(victim) names
WARNING SIGNS OF MENTAL ABUSE:
* The victim will have low self
esteem.
* The victim will make negative
comments about themselves.
* When asked 2 go somewhere
the victim will make excuses
why they "Can't Go"
In most cases the "victim" will make excuses why they can't go because they are in fear that they will be accused of cheating or in fear that the "abuser" will get upset/mad.
Forms of Abuse
There are many forms of ABUSE!
* Physical Abuse
* Mental Abuse
* Emotional Abuse
* Sexual Abuse
I have experienced all 4 types of abuse. I am a " Survivor", NOT A VICTIM!
Based on my life experiences, in my opinion I would have 2 say that Sexual, Mental, & Emotional Abuse are the worse because the marks, ( brushes, red marks, & black eyes), from physical abuse will go away. However any person who has suffered from mental, emotional, & sexual abuse carries that pain throughout their life. Some work hard 2 over come it, while others lives are changed in a negative way. Often people try 2 cover up the pain by self medicating with alcohol &/or drugs 2 try 2 numb the emotional pain. I have NO DOUBT that most drug users & abusers have been abused!
* Physical Abuse
* Mental Abuse
* Emotional Abuse
* Sexual Abuse
I have experienced all 4 types of abuse. I am a " Survivor", NOT A VICTIM!
Based on my life experiences, in my opinion I would have 2 say that Sexual, Mental, & Emotional Abuse are the worse because the marks, ( brushes, red marks, & black eyes), from physical abuse will go away. However any person who has suffered from mental, emotional, & sexual abuse carries that pain throughout their life. Some work hard 2 over come it, while others lives are changed in a negative way. Often people try 2 cover up the pain by self medicating with alcohol &/or drugs 2 try 2 numb the emotional pain. I have NO DOUBT that most drug users & abusers have been abused!
Physical Abuse
Physical Abuse is when somebody physically touches someone with the intent 2 harm them.
Examples:
* Hitting, punching, slapping, kicking, burning, chocking, ect that leaves a physical marks.
WARNING SIGNS OF PHYSICAL ABUSE:
* Brusing
* Black Eyes
* Finger or hand prints in the form
of red marks &/or brushing.
* Bleeding from nose, mouth, or
other body parts.
* Small or large scratches similar 2
cut marks
In most cases the person who is being abused, " VICTIM while still IN THE ABUSIVE SITUATION "
"SURVIVOR once OUT OF THE ABUSIVE SITUATION"
Most Victim's make excuses for their Abusers. Most Victims will show you WARNING SIGNS. You just need to know what 2 notice or look for.
WARNING SIGNS OF PHYSICAL ABUSE:
* In most cases the " Victim " will down play the incident or situation by making excuses 4 the "Abuser"
Victim's "Excuses" " Defense" Statements:
• "It was an accident."
• " He/She was just upset."
• " It's nothing."
• " I fell" " I ran into something."
• " I shouldn't have done ? ."
• " It's my fault." Or " I shouldn't have ? ."
Physical Abuse & Domestic Violence Information Websites
*Abusive Relationship Trap | 10 Signs Of Abuse
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Examples:
* Hitting, punching, slapping, kicking, burning, chocking, ect that leaves a physical marks.
WARNING SIGNS OF PHYSICAL ABUSE:
* Brusing
* Black Eyes
* Finger or hand prints in the form
of red marks &/or brushing.
* Bleeding from nose, mouth, or
other body parts.
* Small or large scratches similar 2
cut marks
In most cases the person who is being abused, " VICTIM while still IN THE ABUSIVE SITUATION "
"SURVIVOR once OUT OF THE ABUSIVE SITUATION"
Most Victim's make excuses for their Abusers. Most Victims will show you WARNING SIGNS. You just need to know what 2 notice or look for.
WARNING SIGNS OF PHYSICAL ABUSE:
* In most cases the " Victim " will down play the incident or situation by making excuses 4 the "Abuser"
Victim's "Excuses" " Defense" Statements:
• "It was an accident."
• " He/She was just upset."
• " It's nothing."
• " I fell" " I ran into something."
• " I shouldn't have done ? ."
• " It's my fault." Or " I shouldn't have ? ."
Physical Abuse & Domestic Violence Information Websites
*Abusive Relationship Trap | 10 Signs Of Abuse
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