When it comes 2 relationships, weather it is our family, spouse, friends, ect, you can NOT make any relationship work without trust!
Trust is very hard to come by. It is something that is earned over time but once it's gone, it's almost impossible to get back.
That is one of the main reasons that I am @ the beginning stages of a divorce.
I don't know what happened 2 my soon 2 be ex. Our relationship was so different in the beginning. I know that all relationships are good starting out, but somewhere along the way, he changed. He has become somebody that I don't know & I don't want to know.
He started lying to me about little things. We all know that once someone lies to us about the little things it plants a seed in the back of our minds " If you can lie about something so little, what bigger issues are you lying about (hiding)? " That seed my fade over time, that is if we don't catch them in any more lies, if we do then that faded ? becomes more vibid, then turns 2 bold letters when you look back @ it later down the road, that bold ? you begin 2 see was a warning sign.
When my ex started lying to me, as I look back @ it now, I can see that was a warning sign that I couldn't trust him.
The 2nd warning sign I didn't catch in2 until he was mad @ me, & I told him 2 get out. I would be looking for something random then realize that he done took my shit. By took my shit I mean that he stole my shit, jewelry mainly, but my feminine products, body wash, shampoo, conditioner, perfume, ect. Him stealing my shit pissed me off in the worst way! I guess it was because I never messed with his stuff no matter how mad I was @ him.
Warning sign #3 is when I realized that he didn't respect me. I learned @ a very young age that respect goes a long way! It's also something that you have 2 give 2 get, by that I mean that you have 2 give respect 2 get respect!
We all know that everything happens 4 a reason. When everything is said & done I look back & try to find the LESSON or WHAT I CAN LEARN ABOUT MY PAST SITUATIONS 2 HELP OTHERS! I like 2 give advice, share my experiences, & warning signs 2 help others, weather it is 2 help open their eyes 2 a toxic situation that they need 2 get out of, or giving advice, or being the listening ear that they need 2 listen 2 them, or 2 be that one friend/person that makes the time 2 not only care about but also help them.
When the trust is gone in any relationship, the relationship always crumbles! When you can't trust a person, when they start lying 2 you, &/or stealing from you the relationship is OVER because the RESPECT IS GONE!
Just 2 recap, there are #3 WARNING SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER:
#1: Trust is gone
#2: Lies
#3: Loss of Respect
